Death is and always will be hard, but the difficulty is often compounded by the difficulties that come with arranging a service at a cemetery in Matthews, NC. Learn more about this process of arranging a funeral so you can be better prepared when faced with the loss of a loved one.
There are eight main steps that everyone must follow after death to arrange a service:
- Choose the Service – There are several service options you need to be prepared to choose from such as funerals, in which the service is held before the body is cremated or buried and the body is present, or memorials, in which the service is help after the body is buried or cremated and therefore not present.
- Report the Death – If the death is at a hospital, nursing home, or hospice, the officials there will know what to do and will make the report for you. If you are at home or have no other options, call 911.
- Prepare to Work with a Funeral Director – You will need the assistance of a funeral director to complete the death certificate, and transport and store the body. Take note if the deceased made pre-arrangements for his or her funeral or cremation and be prepared to relay these wishes to the director.
- Make Cemetery Arrangements – If you choose to inter the remains after the funeral or cremation, you will need to make cemetery arrangements. Decide where the burial will take place, and if necessary, purchase a plot. If you’re unsure where to start, your funeral director or cremation assistant will most likely be affiliated with a cemetery and can help you find a plot. You could also check with your church, synagogue, or another place of worship for further guidance.
- Plan the Service – Feel free to get creative when making memorial or funeral service arrangements to make the service personal and meaningful. Flowers, music, pre or post-service events, and other special touches help make the service person for you and the deceased.
- Make the Death Announcement – Personally inform all close family, friends, and loved ones of the death, ideally over the phone or in person. If you’re nervous, take the time to write a script to help you make key points. Don’t forget to write and release a death notice to notify the rest of the friends, coworkers, associates, etc.
- Stay Organized – You should make a list of what you need to accomplish before the service to help you stay organized and not forget anything important. This list could include your attire, personal items, or collecting photos.
- Make Body Transportation Arrangements – You will need to plan for the body to be transported from the place of death to the funeral home, and also to the cemetery if you choose burial, as well as inform the family and write a death notice.
Looking for more guidance on arranging funerals? As a Matthews, NC cemetery, we are here to help. Stop by and visit us or give us a call today to learn more.